The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More (Unabridged)
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4.6 • 158 Ratings
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- $14.99
Publisher Description
THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
From communication expert Jefferson Fisher, the definitive book on making your next conversation the one that changes everything
No matter who you’re talking to, The Next Conversation gives you immediately actionable strategies and phrases that will forever change how you communicate. Jefferson Fisher, trial lawyer and one of the leading voices on real-world communication, offers a tried-and-true framework that will show you how to transform your life and your relationships by improving your next conversation.
Fisher has gained millions of followers through short, simple, practical videos teaching people how to argue less and talk more. Whether it’s handling a heated conversation, dealing with a difficult personality, or standing your ground with confidence, his down-to-earth teachings have helped countless people navigate life’s toughest situations. Now for the first time, Fisher has distilled his three-part communication system (Say it with control, Say it with confidence, Say it to connect) that can easily be applied to any situation.
You will learn:
Why you should never "win" an argumentHow to assert yourself and communicate with intentionHow to set boundaries and frame conversationsWhy saying less is often moreHow to overcome conflict with connection
The Next Conversation will give you practical phrases that will lead to powerful results, from breaking down defensiveness in a hard talk with a family member to finding your own assertive voice at the boardroom conference table. Your every word matters, and by controlling how you communicate every day, you will create waves of positive impact that will resonate throughout your relationships to last a lifetime.
Everything you want to say, and how you want to say it, can be found in The Next Conversation.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
Armed with homespun charm, Jefferson Fisher simplifies the art of effective communication with this guide. One in a long line of trial attorneys, he soaked up lessons from his family from a young age, such as that winning an argument should never be as important as finding an equitable resolution. Fisher, who first gained notice by recording communication tips from the front seat of his truck, delivers practical, earthy wisdom. As he notes, most of us know what we want to say—the struggle is with how to say it. Some pieces of advice are courtroom tested, like speaking confidently and avoiding fillers like “you know,” while others resonate on a more personal level, including dispensing with needless apologies and utilizing statements like “I see things differently” during an argument. His Texan drawl and reassuring manner instantly make his narration feel safe. The practical advice in The Next Conversation will lessen the anxiety of even the most difficult exchanges.
Customer Reviews
Amazing book!! Life Changing!
Beautiful book really changing my communication and allowing me to build everlasting meaningful relationships with the people I love. Thank you Jefferson.
Such a needed voice!
Powerful & Practical!
Jefferson delivers a compelling and compassionate approach to the Art & Science of how we can become Better Listeners, Better Speakers,Wise and Compassionate Communicators and ultimately BETTER HUMANS!
Thankful for the Fresh voice of practical wisdom!
Best communication guide
Without using jargon or psychobabble, Fisher delivers the absolute best communication guide which has broad applications across several domains but especially fostering healthy relationships. Following his straightforward approach, I’ve already discovered greater clarity and calm dealing with a number of types of difficult situations and I express my gratitude